A mongoc_server_stream_t should not be reused after calling mongoc_cluster_run_command_monitored on with the stream.

In two situations, the stream will disconnect and be invalidated:

• a network error (example)
• a "not master" or "node is recovering error" for pre 4.2 server (here)

When that happens, the server_stream for that operation is no longer valid. But we do not always account that correctly.

_mongoc_write_opmsg (incorrectly) always ends unordered bulk operations on error because of CDRIVER-3305. Once that is resolved, it will need to handle the case of an invalidated server stream.

_mongoc_write_opquery only sets must_stop to true for what it deems is a network error (of which, that check might not be quite right if error labels were applied). But it does not handle the case of a "not master" or "node is recovering" error causing a disconnect.